It is sad that many people search for security everywhere but inside themselves. The truth is, that security comes from within – nothing outside can give you a sense of security, if you are insecure inside. There is nothing that can make you secure except yourself.
I do belive, that security comes from clarity. People, who know exactly what they want and persistently reach for their goals, become more secure, are more successful.
Insecure persons always seek for the opinions of others before proceeding. They assume, that other people know better what to do. They do not realise, that most of the people have no idea about who they are, or what they want. If you are insecure, you are ready to be lead by anyone.
Of cource you wish to feel secure! Start listening to your own needs, forget about what others think you should do. Stop being the follower and become the leader of your own life. You cannot wait that someone solve your problems – your problems are meant to solve only by you… This is how life teach us. Only you know, what you truly want, only you know, what is best for you. There is just one way to get what you wish – follow your own guidance! Without clear goals and no direction on your mind, you are week and cannot progress or improve yourself.
Start making your very own choices and you´ll be the person, everyone wish to follow. Wake up in the morning and make a plan! Be independent and have a clear goal in mind – then you gain security and your life gets exciting. There are many things what happening just once… Be truly there then, think positive, don´t loose yourself and be the leader of your own life. Everything will fall into place, when you´ll make happiness to your “default” position, when you start to trust yourself. Act the way you want to be and you will realise, that soon you will be the way you act. Have a dream and have a clear visions! I wish you a lot of love and self security!
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